Tuesday 26 January 2016

What is Love...?

What is Love...?
Love is many things...
it changes over time and is unique... different for each of us.
There is love for a parent, sibling, child, lover, husband/wife and friend...!
Love is the greatest gift that we can have and is the driving force behind so many aspects of life!
  Yes, love is a feeling but it is more, so much more, than just a feeling...
the word LOVE is a verb - an ACTION word!
Take a moment to consider what love really is then...
L = laughter
Laughing together, not at each other, in any relationship are smiles, giggles and way of showing love! It opens up the opportunities for:-  joy, fun, does not need words as it is a mutual and different kind of communication.
It is the unspoken sign of love shinning through.
Laughter is therefore an ACTION word... as is Love!

O = openness 
Openness between two people heralds in: honesty, truth, fairness, understanding and... a complete belief and trust.
It is the respect and commitment shown towards each other.
Openness is therefore an ACTION word... as is LOVE!

V = value
Value within any relationship is reflected through: kindness, gentleness, understanding and consideration, equality, words, behaviour  and treatment.  It is a way of showing those innermost, true feelings for one another.
It is the  and the being best of friends!
Value is therefore an ACTION word... as is LOVE!

E = evolving
Evolving within a relationship is part of change...
Evolving means the passing of time, the dealing with circumstances and events... the growing and deepening of love
It is the learning about each other and dealing with that knowledge! 
Evolving is therefore an ACTION word... as is LOVE!

Love is an ACTION word and is so evident in all that you DO, SAY, ACT and how... you show it!
Oh... there will be times when you do not feel loved or even want to love especially when life crowds in!
But... Love  is a choice and it is in this very understanding of what love is, and is not, which will determine how we CHOOSE to deal with our relationships in times of:- hurt, pain, sadness and when circumstances, other people, stress, tiredness and LIFE (in general) gets in the way!
Understanding what love is will help your love to be strengthened, deepened and continue on forever!
The greatest gift in life is LOVE, both for yourself and for another!

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