Walk Towards Your New Beginning...!
Keep away from people who try to belittle your ambitions.
Small people always do that, but the really great make you feel that you, too, can become great
(Mark Twain)
What wise words Mark Twain wrote
Sadly many people make you feel inadequate, worthless and very small and often we ask:-
'Why am I not good enough even though I try and try and try?"
Sadly many people make you feel inadequate, worthless and very small and often we ask:-
'Why am I not good enough even though I try and try and try?"
Take heart and know that you are worth far more than cruel criticism, abuse, underhanded comments and any negative behaviour and/or words that someone might direct at you!
Take heart as the problem is NOT with yourself rather, it is with those who belittle, hurt and try to demean you.
Yes, the problem lies not in you but in the those who use behaviour and/or words to hurt...
None of us know what lies in another - their feelings and why they do what they do!
Is it out of:-
hurt,
guilt,
shame,
lies,
jealousy,
hatred,
resentment,
judgement,
prejudice,
low self esteem...?
Who knows...but HEY, whatever the reason that never ever condones any negative behaviour or words!
And, neither does that mean you take on board their negativity and lean towards what they have become by 'pay back time'.
Do not adopt an unforgiving nature as this will only, hurt you...
it will make you into someone you are not...
it will fill your spirit and soul with bitterness, resentment and hate, and...
it will keep you from moving forwards in your life.
Yes, we are all human and want to dish out justice when we are unfairly treated but,
just take a minute or two to think something through:-
Harbouring grudges and wanting revenge will drain you spiritually, emotionally and physically.
Forgiveness instead energizes and allows you freedom to move on.
So... for your own sake do not pay back hurt with hurt nor,
live your life seeking some kind of compensation,
instead...
be brave and walk away those people, just walk away with faith and belief in yourself!
Faith and belief in your own abilities and forgive and live free!
Just know you are worth far more than taking on board what someone else has become,
Just know that you can step out beyond their shadow.
Just know that you are able to press on towards your goal... the goal that is called 'YOUR LIFE"
Yes, walk away from those who hurt you and even when daunted you must not quit!
For, each ending brings in a new beginning and in walking away your new beginning has just begun!
Dear Friends
I know personally how hard it is to 'walk away' but, yes you can do it and, when you do the new beginning which will open up for you is amazing.
Having a belief in yourself, your worth and ability to be able to cope with adversity and overcome is most of the battle as a positive attitude is the key - thoughts, words and actions will then flow on from that.
At times we need a helping hand - whether it is physical or mental help - that is okay. Do not be afraid or ashamed to take it, as when others who have your welfare at heart walk along side of you they will be there to give you that added support and boost you might need.
Walk strong, walk tall and know that you are WORTH IT!
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