Saturday, 30 January 2016

"What do you want to do when you grow up?"

"What do you want to do when you grow up?"
How many times did you hear these words when you were growing up...?
It is a question that we were asked a lot as children, but how are we supposed to know when we are young what we truly want in life? Especially when there are so many things out there, and so many things to learn... so many options to choose from and so many things we could do!
As a child how can you have answered this question?
As an adult can you answer that question now?
Now that you are grown have you made that choice. Do you know or have you decided what it is that you really want to do and are you doing it -
No... not sure or... yes!
Many times in life we 'do what we do' because someone else wanted us to do it...
it was expected of us,
or...
we just 'fell' into it!
Sometimes in life what we do is just, 'going through the motions' and life becomes just, 'what it is'!
Ask yourself this this question:- Have I become buried in the 'mundane', gotten lost in the crowd and done what was expected of me, so much so, that my true identity has become blurred, lost and hidden by a perceived necessity -  all because... what I am doing now that I am all grown is NOT what I really want to do!
Think carefully about the answer carefully and know that... Life is about WHO you are not just what you do!
Think about this carefully - what you do with your life needs to fit in with who you really are...! It needs to fit in with your values, character, desires and true identity!
Life is NOT about what others want, or think, NOR is it about what is expected of you!
Think about this carefully and reflect upon your Journey of Life... where will you be this time, next week... next month... next year or... in ten years time!
What will be your triumphs and what will be your regrets? Will you still be doing what is expected of you or will you be doing what you ASPIRE to do?
Choose to live your identity as you want to live it - it might take effort, time, study, some hardships or 'going out on a limb'! It might take some decision making, prioritization and setting some goals! Baby steps might be needed before larger ones are okay but, do, reflect on what you are doing and ask yourself this question...
"Now that I am grown is what I am doing really what I want to do?" 
If it is, great! If it is NOT just remember that...
Life is full of choices so be happy with yours and if you are not, take the chance to make the choice to change your life - you DO have the inner strength to do so!

I write an inspirational blog – RuAnCa   http://ruanca.blogspot.co.nz
and have the following:-
My inspirational facebook page - www.facebook.com/ruthannecaukwell
World Wide Branding – VIP member - http://www.worldwidebranding.com/Ruth%20Anne-Caukwell
My first inspirational book - 'Musings of a Blogger - Inspirational Thoughts for Your Life's Journey', (Published in 2016) is available through Balboa Press:-
and Amazon
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Tuesday, 26 January 2016

What is Love...?

What is Love...?
Love is many things...
it changes over time and is unique... different for each of us.
There is love for a parent, sibling, child, lover, husband/wife and friend...!
Love is the greatest gift that we can have and is the driving force behind so many aspects of life!
  Yes, love is a feeling but it is more, so much more, than just a feeling...
the word LOVE is a verb - an ACTION word!
Take a moment to consider what love really is then...
L = laughter
Laughing together, not at each other, in any relationship are smiles, giggles and way of showing love! It opens up the opportunities for:-  joy, fun, does not need words as it is a mutual and different kind of communication.
It is the unspoken sign of love shinning through.
Laughter is therefore an ACTION word... as is Love!

O = openness 
Openness between two people heralds in: honesty, truth, fairness, understanding and... a complete belief and trust.
It is the respect and commitment shown towards each other.
Openness is therefore an ACTION word... as is LOVE!

V = value
Value within any relationship is reflected through: kindness, gentleness, understanding and consideration, equality, words, behaviour  and treatment.  It is a way of showing those innermost, true feelings for one another.
It is the  and the being best of friends!
Value is therefore an ACTION word... as is LOVE!

E = evolving
Evolving within a relationship is part of change...
Evolving means the passing of time, the dealing with circumstances and events... the growing and deepening of love
It is the learning about each other and dealing with that knowledge! 
Evolving is therefore an ACTION word... as is LOVE!

Love is an ACTION word and is so evident in all that you DO, SAY, ACT and how... you show it!
Oh... there will be times when you do not feel loved or even want to love especially when life crowds in!
But... Love  is a choice and it is in this very understanding of what love is, and is not, which will determine how we CHOOSE to deal with our relationships in times of:- hurt, pain, sadness and when circumstances, other people, stress, tiredness and LIFE (in general) gets in the way!
Understanding what love is will help your love to be strengthened, deepened and continue on forever!
The greatest gift in life is LOVE, both for yourself and for another!

My inspirational book ‘Musings of a Blogger – Inspirational Thoughts for Your Life’s Journey’- available from Balboa Press
and Amazon
My inspirational blog – RuAnCa   http://ruanca.blogspot.co.nz
My inspirational facebook page - www.facebook.com/ruthannecaukwell
World Wide Branding – VIP member - http://www.worldwidebranding.com/Ruth%20Anne-Caukwell

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Friday, 22 January 2016

'Musings of a Blogger - Inspirational Thoughts for Your Life's Journey' - Books Go Social

Have a look at my webpage regarding my book, "Musings of a Blogger - Inspirational Thoughts for Your Life's Journey" - promoting the e-book version (Kindle) (available also on Amazon.com and Balboapress.com in e-book and large paperback versions)!



I hope that you take a journey with me and start on your journey of finding your authentic self as you are, dear Reader, the one main character in my book and it is, you yourself, who is the most important person to the whole story, as, the information contained within the story is for you to read, contemplate and utilize for your own life if you choose to!

love

Ruth Anne Caukwell​



'Musings of a Blogger - Inspirational Thoughts for Your Life's Journey' - Books Go Social: How this book came to be written I wrote this book from my inspirational blog, RuAnCa.blogspot.co.nz, which I started in January 2015, after I had gone through a soul-destroying period of adult bullying, one from which I thought I would never recover. Time and support did heal me, though, and because of these experiences, I learned …




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Monday, 18 January 2016

I am holding 'Musings of a Blogger - Inspirational Thoughts for your Life's Journey' in my hand....!



******** wonderful.exciting news ******
I am holding my 'Authors' copy of my new inspirational book, 'Musings of a Blogger - Inspirational Thoughts for Your Life's Journey' )published by Balboa Press just on the 13th January 2016) in my hand! 
You can purchase a copy from Balboa Press or Amazon as well 
(my book will be released to many other sellers within the next 4-5 weeks) -
http://bookstore.balboapress.com/…/Musings-of-a-Blogger.aspx
and Amazon
http://www.amazon.com/

Read what others say about ‘Musings of a Blogger – Inspirational Thoughts for Your Life’s Journey’!
“I just finished reading Ruth Caukwell’s new book, Musings of a Blogger - Inspirational Thoughts for Your Life’s Journey. Let me just say, if you have been struggling in your life, unsure how to identify and break free of the “baggage” that’s been holding you back, then you have to pick up a copy of Ruth’s book. Not only does she help you identify those obstacles, but helps you crush them with a very simple, yet thorough, step by step process. With a format that is easy to use individually, or along with others, this book will become your go-to resource for any struggles you’re experiencing in your life. 
Rick Sheninger - CEO - One To One Marketing, Author, and Speaker
“It has been proven that true and lasting success is found within the walls of Self-Belief, Self-Confidence and Self-Love! If you’re serious about a successful future then read Ruth’s book, Musings of a Blogger – Inspirational Thoughts for Your Life’s Journey, and experience a Journey inside those walls that will lead you to a deep happiness that few people will ever find.” This book is a true life changer for sure! 
Dr. Robert Minzak - Successful Entrepreneur, Relationship Marketer and Speaker
Ruth Caukwell’s book, Musings of a Blogger – Inspirational Thoughts for Your Life’s Journey, encourages you on your journey towards being your authentic self. Full of great advice, this workbook puts the power in your hands to make different choices in thought and behaviour to change your life. As Ruth says, you were not born a winner, nor were you born a loser; you were born a chooser. Choose to read this book. 
Karen Degen - Author of ‘Heightening Your Happiness - How you can develop the skill of enjoying your life’
I have read Ruth’s book, Musings of a Blogger – Inspirational Thoughts for Your Life’s Journey, and was very excited to see this is aimed at the individual who needs to embrace change, to enhance their lives, move outside of their comfort zone and, break through the “terror Barrier”. It has often been said that your goal or your dream is on the other side of your fear - this book exemplifies that and goes one step further and, simplifies it! A must read for all those who need to make changes in their direction and live the life of their dreams. Great work Ruth. God Bless. 
Bruce Vesey-Brown - Home Based Business Specialist, Independant Jeunesse Distributer
A quote from my book:-
"You can find your authentic self—the choice is yours. You were born great. You were born authentic. You were born with everything you need because you are you. You are an individual. You are unique and nobody else can be you, So believe in yourself and take those steps forwards. Go out there and make your journey of life your own!"
hope to hear from some of you (about what you feel about my book and how it has helped you), as I would love feedback about it - have a great week
regards
Ruth Anne Caukwell
Feel free to have a look at my inspirational Blog - RuAnCa and join me on my twitter, Instagram and facebook (links below) -
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Friday, 15 January 2016

Musings of a Blogger - Ruth Anne Caukwell : Balboa Press

Musings of a Blogger - Ruth Anne Caukwell : Balboa Press: Musings of a Blogger: Inspirational Thoughts for Your Life's Journey speaks with a voice of courage and a spirit of discovery as it reveals the musings of a woman who has devoted her life to personal improvement through education, reflection, and...
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Thursday, 14 January 2016

RuAnCa: Available now - 'Musings of a Blogger - Inspiratio...

RuAnCa: Available now - 'Musings of a Blogger - Inspiratio...: 'Musings of a Blogger - Inspirational Thoughts for Your Life's Journey' After many months of hard work and waiting, my book ...
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Available now - 'Musings of a Blogger - Inspirational Thoughts for Your Life's Journey'!

'Musings of a Blogger - Inspirational Thoughts for Your Life's Journey'
After many months of hard work and waiting, my book -  
'Musings of A Blogger - Inspirational Thoughts for Your Life's Journey'
is available for purchase at Balboa Press and Amazon!
Read the back cover below:- 
Musings of a Blogger: Inspirational Thoughts for Your Life’s Journey speaks with a voice of courage and a spirit of discovery as it reveals the musings of a woman who has devoted her life to personal improvement through education, refl ection, and transformation. The author, Ruth Anne Caukwell, entwines a collection of inspirational thoughts with a sequence of workbook entries. By spending time sharing the musings and then reviewing one’s own life, the reader of this guide for life’s journey can set out with determination to discover life’s deep truths.
Musings of a Blogger shares the story of a boy who sees a butterfly struggling to emerge from its chrysalis. Desiring to help it, he releases the butterfly, only to discover that the struggle to break free is what gives strength to the butterfly’s wings. Absent the struggle, the butterfl y is too weak to fl y. The workbook gives shape to one’s struggle, serving to build strength so that one may fl y gloriously like a healthy butterfly.
By sharing this journey with the author, you can discover the truth about your own life and the source of your strength. As she writes, “Walking alongside others instead of totally relying on them allows you to become strengthened. It allows you to become who you really are, able to fi nd your authentic self and fl y free. It allows you to be who you were meant to be!”
Ruth Anne Caukwell is an author, blogger, and teacher. Born in Christchurch, New Zealand, she earned her bachelor’s degree in modern Asian studies at Griffi th University, Brisbane. She has published two e-books of short stories, written about women and for women - available on Amazon.
'Musings of a Blogger' is available as a large paperback at Balboa Press:-

http://bookstore.balboapress.com/Products/SKU-001040507/Musings-of-a-Blogger.aspx

and.... as a large paperback and an ebook (Kindle) at Amazon.com
My book will be available from these other distribution channels at a later date:
 AbeBooks.com  Amazon.com  Amazon.ca  Amazon.co.uk
 BarnesandNoble.com  Borders.com  Froogle.com  Target.com 
 Waterstones.com  WHSmith.com  Bertram Books
 BookManager/TitleWave/PubStock  Nielsen BookData  Gardners Books
 Ingram in the US  Phoenix in AU
******  Book Endorsements  ******
Read what others say about, “Musings of a Blogger – Inspirational Thoughts for Your Life’s Journey!”
“I just finished reading Ruth Caukwell's new book, Musings of a Blogger - Inspirational Thoughts for Your Life's Journey.  Let me just say, if you have been struggling in your life, unsure how to identify and break free of the ‘baggage’ that's been holding you back, then you have to pick up a copy of Ruth's book.  Not only does she help you identify those obstacles, but helps you crush them with a very simple, yet thorough, step by step process.  With a format that is easy to use individually, or along with others, this book will become your go-to resource for any struggles you're experiencing in your life.”
—Rick Sheninger, CEO of One To One Marketing, Author, and Speaker
“It has been proven that true and lasting success is found within the walls of Self-Belief, Self-Confidence and Self-Love! If you're serious about a successful future then read Ruth's book, Musings of a Blogger – Inspirational Thoughts for Your Life’s Journey, and experience a Journey inside those walls that will lead you to a deep happiness that few people will ever find. This book is a true life changer for sure!”
—Dr. Robert Minzak, Successful Entrepreneur, Relationship Marketer and Speaker
“Ruth Caukwell’s book, Musings of a Blogger – Inspirational Thoughts for Your Life’s Journey, encourages you on your journey towards being your authentic self.  Full of great advice, this workbook puts the power in your hands to make different choices in thought and behaviour to change your life.  As Ruth says, you were not born a winner, nor were you born a loser; you were born a chooser.  Choose to read this book.”
 —Karen Degen, Author of, “Heightening Your Happiness - How you can develop the skill of enjoying your life”
“I read Ruth’s book, Musings of a Blogger – Inspirational Thoughts for Your Life’s Journey, and was very excited to see this is aimed at the individual who needs to embrace change, to enhance their lives, move outside of their comfort zone and, break through the ‘terror barrier.’ It has often been said that your goal or your dream is on the other side of your fear - this book exemplifies that and goes one step further and, simplifies it! A must read for all those who need to make changes in their direction and live the life of their dreams. Great work, Ruth. God Bless.”
—Bruce Vesey-Brown, Home Based Business Specialist, Independent Jeunesse Distributer
******  Take a Journey of Self Discovery with me by reading “Musings of a Blogger" as you will never be the same again!  *****
Thank you for your support - kindest regards
Ruth

My inspirational Book – ‘Musings of a Blogger – Inspirational Thoughts for Your Life’s Journey’ - http://bookstore.balboapress.com/Products/SKU-001040507/Musings-of-a-Blogger.aspx
I write an inspirational blog – RuAnCa   http://ruanca.blogspot.co.nz
My inspirational facebook page - www.facebook.com/ruthannecaukwell
World Wide Branding – VIP member - http://www.worldwidebranding.com/Ruth%20Anne-Caukwell
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Saturday, 9 January 2016

Do You have the Power of Vision...?

Do You Have the Power of Vision?
We go about our daily living focused in the 'now' - that very moment, hour and day - and so often do not 'see' or recognize how important what we do, each day, truly is...!
Those routines, the mundane and the usual ho-hum of our everyday seem so unimportant at the time we are living in it,
but...
do you have the power of vision to see just how vital what you do, is within the larger picture of your life?
Can you take the minutiae of any given second, hour or day of your life and see how important each word, feeling, emotion and action really is?
What you do today matters so very much as it is the determining factor of ALL your tomorrows, so, recognize how necessary 'the now' is for your future?
Oh there is nothing glamorous about those routines, the mundane and the usual ho-hum of our everyday but,
when you recognize just how important each millisecond of your life is and when you open your eyes and clear your vision...
you will find a renewed purpose because, VISION will open up your life.
Vision brings a focus to your world as never before!
Open up your eyes and reflect upon what you do, as, without travelling through the seconds you will not reach the next minute and next hour of each new day!
Your seconds are like the sandbags of a levee which, when built into a wall will save a city against the ravages of a raging river but, without them there would be nothing saved - the flood waters will overcome! The drudgery of filling those sandbags is dirty, hard work, and seemingly useless but, the building of a levee which saves a city gives new meaning to such drudgery!
Life is like that - your seconds might be filled with routines and the mundane, but without them your life would not be lived as...
each thing you say, do and feel, within those seconds, is connected to your future so, open your eyes and...
 see those everyday seconds - the routines, the mundane and the usual ho-hum as the sandbags of your life - the building of a levee to your future.
Yes, see your everyday seconds through a different LENS...
one sharpened by VISION!
Do you have the power of vision because when you do everything has a new meaning, direction and purpose, so much so that...
life becomes just amazing!

Myinspirational blog – RuAnCa   http://ruanca.blogspot.co.nz
My inspirational facebook page - www.facebook.com/ruthannecaukwell
World Wide Branding – VIP member - http://www.worldwidebranding.com/Ruth%20Anne-Caukwell
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Tuesday, 5 January 2016

The Mouse, the Cat, the Dog and the Tiger...!

The Mouse, the Cat, the Dog and the Tiger...!
There was once a mouse who was terrified of cats and lived in fear of being caught and eaten by one.
He cowered in his home living a-half a life.
One day a Magician who was visiting him, after much pleading by the mouse, agreed to change him into a cat.
Wow this was great, or so the mouse-turned-cat thought until...
he met a dog!
After much pleading the Magician again agreed to change his form but this time into a dog.
Wow this was great, or so the mouse-turned-cat-turned-dog thought until...
he met a tiger!
The mouse-turned-cat-turned-dog pleaded and pleaded with the Magician to once again help him by changing his form into a tiger and, so he did!
Wow this was great, or so the mouse-turned-cat-turned-dog-turned-tiger thought until...
he met a hunter!
The mouse-turned-cat-turned-dog-turned-tiger pleaded and pleaded and pleaded with the Magician to once again help him by changing his form into a hunter!
This time the Magician refused to, instead...
he told him, "I have changed you into what you have feared time-and-time again but to no avail, as even though you now have the body of a tiger you still have the heart of a mouse" and then...
the Magician changed the mouse-turned-cat-turned-dog-turned-tiger BACK into a MOUSE
(A legend from India)

Even though you seem are fearless and full of confidence on the outside are you trembling on your inside...
Is this you?
Have you built a wall which you hide behind, one that protects you from your life, other people and your past?
Yes, on the outside are you a tiger but, on the inside you feel like a mouse?
Do you growl like a tiger using words and might...
do you pounce like a tiger using force...
do you seek security in 'things' or seek power, wealth, fame and status just like the mighty majestic tiger?
But all the while you are hiding your fear, your insecurities, your loathing, hatred, worthlessness and how... you really feel - you DO NOT feel brave in side but scared and lost...!
Do you feel like this and is this you?
Realize that you can hide behind your wall forever but will you live a life?
Do not let fear control you as fear makes you lost and destroys who you truly are instead...
step out from behind your wall - it takes courage and inner strength but you DO have the courage there inside - just believe that you do and you will find it!
 It takes a huge strength and commitment to overcome and step out from our fears BUT,  it is up to you to play the major part in that journey or you will never truly overcome. This is sometimes the hardest thing you will ever do but it is so very worth it and you really can do it!!
My upcoming inspirational book (released late January 2016) - 'Musings of a Blogger - Inspirational Thoughts for Your Life's Journey' has:
10 chapters of Inspirational Words (each chapter discusses a theme) and a 10 chapter workbook (which relates back to each previous 10 chapters) then Reader's Group Questions.  The whole aspect of my book discusses how to face and overcome, then, dealing with issues in our life through practical and sensible ways - very much what is wanted and needed in today's world of tragedy!
Below is a quote from my book:
If we are brave enough to face those things that make us afraid we can face our fears that so much better…
If we are brave enough to face those things which hurt we can face our hurts with triumph!
The fear then… will not creep into our lives nor will the hurt over take…
We will be free to step forwards with courage and find out that we are BRAVER than we think!

Step out my friends and find your TRUE SELF!

My inspirational blog – RuAnCa   http://ruanca.blogspot.co.nz
My inspirational facebook page - www.facebook.com/ruthannecaukwell
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Friday, 1 January 2016

Walk Towards Your New Beginning...!

Walk Towards Your New Beginning...!

Keep away from people who try to belittle your ambitions.
Small people always do that, but the really great make you feel that you, too, can become great

(Mark Twain)

What wise words Mark Twain wrote
 Sadly many people make you feel inadequate, worthless and very small and often we ask:-

'Why am I not good enough even though I try and try and try?"


Take heart and know that you are worth far more than cruel criticism, abuse, underhanded comments and any negative behaviour and/or words that someone might direct at you!

Take heart as the problem is NOT with yourself rather, it is with those who belittle, hurt and try to demean you.

Yes, the problem lies not in you but in the those who use behaviour and/or words to hurt...
None of us know what lies in another - their feelings and why they do what they do!
Is it out of:-
hurt, 
guilt,
 shame,
 lies,
 jealousy,
 hatred,
 resentment,
 judgement,
 prejudice,
 low self esteem...?
Who knows...but HEY, whatever the reason that never ever condones any negative behaviour or words!

And, neither does that mean you take on board their negativity and lean towards what they have become by 'pay back time'.

Do not adopt an unforgiving nature as this will only, hurt you...
it will make you into someone you are not...
it will fill your spirit and soul with bitterness, resentment and hate, and...
it will keep you from moving forwards in your life.

Yes, we are all human and want to dish out justice when we are unfairly treated but,
just take a minute or two to think something through:-

Harbouring grudges and wanting revenge will drain you spiritually, emotionally and physically.

 Forgiveness instead energizes and allows you freedom to move on.

So... for your own sake do not pay back hurt with hurt nor,
 live your life seeking some kind of compensation,
 instead...
 be brave and walk away those people, just walk away with faith and belief in yourself!

 Faith and belief in your own abilities and forgive and live free!

 Just know you are worth far more than taking on board what someone else has become,

 Just know that you can step out beyond their shadow.

 Just know that you are able to press on towards your goal... the goal that is called 'YOUR LIFE"

 Yes, walk away from those who hurt you and even when daunted you must not quit!
For, each ending brings in a new beginning and in walking away your new beginning has just begun!



Dear Friends

I know personally how hard it is to 'walk away' but, yes you can do it and, when you do the new beginning which will open up for you is amazing.  

Having a belief in yourself, your worth and ability to be able to cope with adversity and overcome is most of the battle as a positive attitude is the key - thoughts, words and actions will then flow on from that.

At times we need a helping hand - whether it is physical or mental help - that is okay. Do not be afraid or ashamed to  take it, as when others who have your welfare at heart walk along side of you they will be there to give you that added support and boost you might need.

Walk strong, walk tall and know that you are WORTH IT! 



My inspirational blog – RuAnCa   http://ruanca.blogspot.co.nz
My twitter - https://twitter.com/ruancaRuth
My Instagram – https://www.instagram.com/ruancaruth/
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My Gmail - https://plus.google.com/+RuthCaukwellRuAnCa/posts
My LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/in/ruth-caukwell-846a3391
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